I live close to a cemetery. So, when the 1st of November is approaching many people all of a sudden remember to visit their family. Usually, elders come 2-3 weeks before "the day" to clean but others don't bother. But, people (generally) don’t visit their loved ones if it’s not the 1st of November.
The whole tradition is based around religion, but either way most people treat it like an obligatory task. In my opinion, there really isn’t a right or wrong approach because it has to do with what you believe. I believe you can visit a loved one who has passed anywhere you are. It matters that you remember, reminisce about them and keep them alive in your mind. People often go to the graveyard and forget the second they leave about their loved one. As a kid I was the same, but as I’m getting older, I’m noticing the importance of remembering those who are not with us. Especially to not forget them and everything they’ve done.
Yes, we don't need a special 'holiday' to remember our late friends and relatives. They can and should be remembered whenever possible.
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